"I found out he was cheating on me with co-worker."

"I find my husband had sex online!"

I have been married to my husband for a little over 1 year. We have a 1 year old son. We work at the same place and about two weeks ago I found out he was cheating on me with another co-worker. This has been going on for a long time (about 6 mos.) And it would still be going on now had I not caught him. I found out by spy his e-mails with spotdoggy, and after reading them, I could tell neither one of them planned to stop any time soon. I also found out about expensive dinners and Hotel room's. Both swear that they did not sleep together, because they just couldn't!!! I love this man with all my heart, but I hurt so bad.

discovered my husband of 22 years had sex online. I found it (messages) about 3 months ago &even though it happened 3 years ago Im absolutely devastated. I think whats making it worse is he seems to think it is no big deal he says its not like I was cheating. I can't talk to my friends as Im so embarrassed and I dont want friends thinking badly about him. I was surprised that there are so many people this has happened to. There is a word fot it you know e-dultery. I was this happy bubbly person confident in the love & fidelety of my husband, now in the couple of months since Ive lost about 2 stone, my hair is falling out &. IM so sad all the time. People say I look good because Ive lost all this weight & ask if Ive been on a diet if they only knew. My heart is truly broken. Thank you for letting me get the truth of my cheating husband, thanks.

"he had been going to sex chat rooms!"

"It gives a great help to my friend!"

Ive been married to my husband for 4 year and I thought we were in love. Well, was I ever shocked when I decided to go into my spotdoggy and saw that he had been going into sex chat rooms on the server we use to play games and chat with friends through a messenger. So, I decided after about 3 months of this(and not letting him know that i know about it) that I would go to a friends house, use her computer, make a new sign in name and profile and see what he was up to. Well I found him in a sex chat room, and I started talking to him, took a deep breath, and finished the job( if you know what i mean) for him. Gave him what he wanted! But I also set up for the woman i was pretending to be to meet with him this weekend, and he agreed. I was devastated. I havent said anything to him yet, and I wont. I am going to see if he makes an excuse to go, and if he does, I dont know what i am going to do. But it wont be pretty! I will have to let you know what happens, after the weekend, so until then, DONT TRUST ANYONE!

In the eyes of Katie's neighbors and friends, she was an enviable housewife - every one knows she has a loving husband. Once in a gathering party, a friend had a moan over her husband’s betrayal and said that she was struggling over whether to bring it out with her husband. Katie comforted her friend and said: “How do you know? Do you have any proof? Maybe you are thinking too much.” Her friend replied: “No, I proved it. I installed a monitoring program in his computer and a few days later when I looked at the record I came to know that he had been chatting with his mistress everyday and there were even many pictures of hers!” Since that day on, Katie became seriously curious about her husband’s situation and installed the same program as recommended by her friend. Fortunately the result was relieving: her husband was loyal. Katie has been sleeping sound every day since then on.